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1Now there was long war between Saul’s house and David’s house. David grew stronger and stronger, but Saul’s house grew weaker and weaker.

2Sons were born to David in Hebron. His firstborn was Amnon, of Ahinoam the Jezreelitess;

3and his second, Chileab, of Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite; and the third, Absalom the son of Maacah the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur;

4and the fourth, Adonijah the son of Haggith; and the fifth, Shephatiah the son of Abital;

5and the sixth, Ithream, of Eglah, David’s wife. These were born to David in Hebron.

6While there was war between Saul’s house and David’s house, Abner made himself strong in Saul’s house.

7Now Saul had a concubine, whose name was Rizpah, the daughter of Aiah; and Ishbosheth said to Abner, “Why have you gone in to my father’s concubine?”

8Then Abner was very angry about Ishbosheth’s words, and said, “Am I a dog’s head that belongs to Judah? Today I show kindness to your father Saul’s house, to his brothers, and to his friends, and have not delivered you into the hand of David; and yet you charge me today with a fault concerning this woman!

9God do so to Abner, and more also, if, as Yahweh has sworn to David, I don’t do even so to him:

10to transfer the kingdom from Saul’s house, and to set up David’s throne over Israel and over Judah, from Dan even to Beersheba.”

11He could not answer Abner another word, because he was afraid of him.

12Abner sent messengers to David on his behalf, saying, “Whose is the land?” and saying, “Make your alliance with me, and behold, my hand will be with you to bring all Israel around to you.”

13David said, “Good. I will make a treaty with you, but one thing I require of you. That is, you will not see my face unless you first bring Michal, Saul’s daughter, when you come to see my face.”

14David sent messengers to Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, saying, “Deliver me my wife Michal, whom I was given to marry for one hundred foreskins of the Philistines.”

15Ishbosheth sent and took her from her husband, Paltiel the son of Laish.

16Her husband went with her, weeping as he went, and followed her to Bahurim. Then Abner said to him, “Go! Return!” and he returned.

17Abner had communication with the elders of Israel, saying, “In times past, you sought for David to be king over you.

18Now then do it! For Yahweh has spoken of David, saying, ‘By the hand of my servant David, I will save my people Israel out of the hand of the Philistines, and out of the hand of all their enemies.’”

19Abner also spoke in the ears of Benjamin; and Abner went also to speak in the ears of David in Hebron all that seemed good to Israel and to the whole house of Benjamin.

20So Abner came to David to Hebron, and twenty men with him. David made Abner and the men who were with him a feast.

21Abner said to David, “I will arise and go, and will gather all Israel to my lord the king, that they may make a covenant with you, and that you may reign over all that your soul desires.” David sent Abner away; and he went in peace.

22Behold, David’s servants and Joab came from a raid and brought in a great plunder with them; but Abner was not with David in Hebron, for he had sent him away, and he had gone in peace.

23When Joab and all the army who was with him had come, they told Joab, “Abner the son of Ner came to the king, and he has sent him away, and he has gone in peace.”

24Then Joab came to the king and said, “What have you done? Behold, Abner came to you. Why is it that you have sent him away, and he is already gone?

25You know Abner the son of Ner. He came to deceive you, and to know your going out and your coming in, and to know all that you do.”

26When Joab had come out from David, he sent messengers after Abner, and they brought him back from the well of Sirah; but David didn’t know it.

27When Abner had returned to Hebron, Joab took him aside into the middle of the gate to speak with him quietly, and struck him there in the body, so that he died for the blood of Asahel his brother.

28Afterward, when David heard it, he said, “I and my kingdom are guiltless before Yahweh forever of the blood of Abner the son of Ner.

29Let it fall on the head of Joab and on all his father’s house. Let there not fail from the house of Joab one who has a discharge, or who is a leper, or who leans on a staff, or who falls by the sword, or who lacks bread.”

30So Joab and Abishai his brother killed Abner, because he had killed their brother Asahel at Gibeon in the battle.

31David said to Joab and to all the people who were with him, “Tear your clothes, and clothe yourselves with sackcloth, and mourn in front of Abner.” King David followed the bier.

32They buried Abner in Hebron; and the king lifted up his voice and wept at Abner’s grave; and all the people wept.

33The king lamented for Abner, and said, “Should Abner die as a fool dies?

34Your hands weren’t bound, and your feet weren’t put into fetters. As a man falls before the children of iniquity, so you fell.” All the people wept again over him.

35All the people came to urge David to eat bread while it was yet day; but David swore, saying, “God do so to me, and more also, if I taste bread or anything else, until the sun goes down.”

36All the people took notice of it, and it pleased them, as whatever the king did pleased all the people.

37So all the people and all Israel understood that day that it was not of the king to kill Abner the son of Ner.

38The king said to his servants, “Don’t you know that a prince and a great man has fallen today in Israel?

39I am weak today, though anointed king. These men, the sons of Zeruiah are too hard for me. May Yahweh reward the evildoer according to his wickedness.”

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Chapter Summary

In this chapter: David's power increases His family. (1–6). Abner revolts to David. (7–21). Joab kills Abner David mourns for him. (22–39).

vv1-6

The length of this war tried the faith and patience of David, and made his settlement at last the more welcome. The contest between grace and corruption in the hearts of believers, may fitly be compared to this warfare. There is a long war between them, the flesh lusting against the spirit, and the spirit against the flesh; but as the work of holiness is carried on, corruption, like the house of Saul, grows weaker and weaker; while grace, like the house of David, grows stronger and stronger.

vv7-21

Many, like Abner, are not above committing base crimes, who are too proud to bear reproof, or even the suspicion of being guilty. While men go on in sin, and apparently without concern, they are often conscious that they are fighting against God. Many mean to serve their own purposes; and will betray those who trust them, when they can get any advantage. Yet the Lord serves his own designs, even by those who are thus actuated by revenge, ambition, or lust; but as they intend not to honour him, in the end they will be thrown aside with contempt. There was real generosity both to Michal and to the memory of Saul, in David's receiving the former, remembering probably how once he owed his life to her affection, and knowing that she was separated from him partly by her father's authority. Let no man set his heart on that which he is not entitled to. If any disagreement has separated husband and wife, as they expect the blessing of God, let them be reconciled, and live together in love.

vv22-39

Judgments are prepared for such scorners as Abner; but Joab, in what he did, acted wickedly. David laid Abner's murder deeply to heart, and in many ways expressed his detestation of it. The guilt of blood brings a curse upon families: if men do not avenge it, God will. It is a sad thing to die like a fool, as they do that any way shorten their own days, and those who make no provision for another world. Who would be fond of power, when a man may have the name of it, and must be accountable for it, yet is hampered in the use of it? David ought to have done his duty, and then trusted God with the issue. Carnal policy spared Joab. The Son of David may long delay, but never fails to punish impenitent sinners. He who now reigns upon the throne of David, has a kingdom of a nobler kind. Whatever He doeth, is noticed by all his willing people, and is pleasing to them.

Cross References

2 Samuel 3

Direct parallel list of David's sons born in Hebron, confirming names and maternal origins.

Supported by Matthew Poole, JFB

v141 Samuel 18:25thematic

Verbatim reference to the bride price of one hundred Philistine foreskins for Michal.

Supported by Matthew Henry, JFB

v272 Samuel 20:10thematic

Joab kills Amasa in the same treacherous manner (striking under the fifth rib).

Supported by Matthew Poole

v271 Kings 2:32thematic

Solomon references Joab's guilt in murdering Abner, executing judgment to clear David's line.

Supported by Matthew Henry, Matthew Poole

Tragic consequences concerning David's firstborn Amnon and his third son Absalom.

Supported by Matthew Poole

v41 Kings 1:5-18thematic

Adonijah, David's fourth son born in Hebron, later attempts to usurp the throne.

Supported by Matthew Poole

v72 Samuel 16:21thematic

Taking a king's concubine acts as a virtual claim to the throne in eastern custom.

Supported by Matthew Poole, JFB

v141 Samuel 25:44thematic

Records Saul giving Michal, David's wife, to Phaltiel (Phalti) the son of Laish.

Supported by Matthew Poole

v272 Samuel 2:19-23thematic

The background event where Abner reluctantly killed Joab's brother Asahel in battle.

Supported by Matthew Poole, JFB

v1Galatians 5:17thematic

The spiritual warfare of flesh versus spirit parallels the weakening house of Saul.

Supported by Matthew Henry

v32 Samuel 13:37thematic

Absalom flees to Geshur to his maternal grandfather Talmai after murdering Amnon.

Supported by Matthew Poole

v81 Samuel 24:14thematic

David uses the same 'dog' idiom to express utter insignificance and self-abasement.

Supported by Matthew Poole

v91 Samuel 15:28thematic

Samuel's prophecy of transferring Saul's kingdom to David, which Abner acknowledges here.

Supported by Matthew Poole, JFB

v112 Samuel 3:39contrast

Contrasts Ish-bosheth's inability to answer Abner with David's weakness before Joab.

Supported by Matthew Henry

v162 Samuel 16:5thematic

Bahurim, where Phaltiel was turned back, is also where Shimei cursed David.

Supported by Matthew Poole

v271 Samuel 14:50thematic

Identifies Abner as the son of Ner, Saul's uncle and captain of the host.

Supported by Matthew Poole