Proverbs23
New Living Translation
1 While dining with a ruler, pay attention to what is put before you.
2 If you are a big eater, put a knife to your throat;
3 don’t desire all the delicacies, for he might be trying to trick you.
4 Don’t wear yourself out trying to get rich. Be wise enough to know when to quit.
5 In the blink of an eye wealth disappears, for it will sprout wings and fly away like an eagle.
6 Don’t eat with people who are stingy; don’t desire their delicacies.
7 They are always thinking about how much it costs. “Eat and drink,” they say, but they don’t mean it.
8 You will throw up what little you’ve eaten, and your compliments will be wasted.
9 Don’t waste your breath on fools, for they will despise the wisest advice.
10 Don’t cheat your neighbor by moving the ancient boundary markers; don’t take the land of defenseless orphans.
11 For their Redeemer is strong; he himself will bring their charges against you.
12 Commit yourself to instruction; listen carefully to words of knowledge.
13 Don’t fail to discipline your children. The rod of punishment won’t kill them.
14 Physical discipline may well save them from death.
15 My child, if your heart is wise, my own heart will rejoice!
16 Everything in me will celebrate when you speak what is right.
17 Don’t envy sinners, but always continue to fear the Lord.
18 You will be rewarded for this; your hope will not be disappointed.
19 My child, listen and be wise: Keep your heart on the right course.
20 Do not carouse with drunkards or feast with gluttons,
21 for they are on their way to poverty, and too much sleep clothes them in rags.
22 Listen to your father, who gave you life, and don’t despise your mother when she is old.
23 Get the truth and never sell it; also get wisdom, discipline, and good judgment.
24 The father of godly children has cause for joy. What a pleasure to have children who are wise.
25 So give your father and mother joy! May she who gave you birth be happy.
26 O my son, give me your heart. May your eyes take delight in following my ways.
27 A prostitute is a dangerous trap; a promiscuous woman is as dangerous as falling into a narrow well.
28 She hides and waits like a robber, eager to make more men unfaithful.
29 Who has anguish? Who has sorrow? Who is always fighting? Who is always complaining? Who has unnecessary bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?
30 It is the one who spends long hours in the taverns, trying out new drinks.
31 Don’t gaze at the wine, seeing how red it is, how it sparkles in the cup, how smoothly it goes down.
32 For in the end it bites like a poisonous snake; it stings like a viper.
33 You will see hallucinations, and you will say crazy things.
34 You will stagger like a sailor tossed at sea, clinging to a swaying mast.
35 And you will say, “They hit me, but I didn’t feel it. I didn’t even know it when they beat me up. When will I wake up so I can look for another drink?”
Study
Proverbs 23Public-domain commentary and original-language notes for Proverbs 23. The full AI study guide (summary, themes, context) has its own page.
vv1-3
God's restraints of the appetite only say, Do thyself no harm.
vv4-5
Be not of those that will be rich. The things of this world are not happiness and a portion for a soul; those that hold them ever so fast, cannot hold them always, cannot hold them long.
vv6-8
Do not make thyself burdensome to any, especially those not sincere. When we are called by God to his feast, and to let our souls delight themselves, Isa 25:6; 55:2, we may safely partake of the Bread of life.
Key Words
יָשַׁב: properly, to sit down (specifically as judge. in ambush, in quiet); by implication, to dwell, to remain; causatively, to settle, to marry
לָחַם: to feed on; figuratively, to consume; by implication, to battle (as destruction)
מָשַׁל: to rule
בִּין: to separate mentally (or distinguish), i.e.(generally) understand
פָּנִים: the face (as the part that turns); used in a great variety of applications (literally and figuratively); also (with prepositional prefix) as a preposition (before, etc.)
שׂוּם: to put (used in a great variety of applications, literal, figurative, inferentially, and elliptically)
שַׂכִּין: a knife (as pointed or edged)
לֹעַ: the gullet
אִם: used very widely as demonstrative, lo!; interrogative, whether?; or conditional, if, although; also Oh that!, when; hence, as a negative, not
בַּעַל: a master; hence, a husband, or (figuratively) owner (often used with another noun in modifications of this latter sense)
Cross References
Proverbs 23Christ explicitly warns against covetousness, confirming that life does not consist in the abundance of possessions.
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Christ warns against casting pearls before swine, echoing the prohibition against speaking wisdom to a fool.
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Solomon echoes his own warning that the mouth of strange women is a deep pit.
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The warning against the host's dainties is directly explained by the description of his evil eye.
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Paul warns against the desire to be rich, parallel to laboring to be rich.
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Command to trust in the Lord and 'lean not unto thine own understanding' (wisdom).
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The Mosaic warning against having an 'evil eye' (grudging heart) toward those in need.
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Direct parallel prohibition against removing the ancient landmark which thy fathers have set.
Parallel warning that Yahweh Himself will plead the cause of the spoiled and poor.
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Contrasts the 'evil eye' of the miserly with the 'bountiful eye' that is blessed.
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Parallel advice not to reprove a scorner, lest he hate thee.
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Classic proverb on the rod of correction, showing sparing it denotes hatred.
Echoes the foundational call to hear the instruction of thy father and mother.
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Guiding the heart in the way is linked directly to giving the heart to Wisdom.
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Hosea warns that whoredom and wine take away the heart, linking the chapter's dual warnings.
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